Adina Porat freed from ‘chained’ marriage after 8-year struggle
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Adina Porat freed from ‘chained’ marriage after 8-year struggle

Adina Porat secured a Jewish religious divorce, or get, as the result of an unprecedented campaign to pressure her husband. (YouTube screenshot)
Adina Porat secured a Jewish religious divorce, or get, as the result of an unprecedented campaign to pressure her husband. (YouTube screenshot)

DAYTON, Ohio — After more than eight years of waiting, an Israeli woman was freed from her marriage after an unprecedented campaign to pressure her husband to grant her a Jewish writ of divorce, or get.

Adina Porat’s former husband, now known as Eli Shur (he went by David Porat when the couple were married), signed the get in late December, nearly two months after the New York-based Organization for the Resolution of Agunot, or ORA, held a rally near Shur’s Dayton-area home to ramp up the pressure. The divorce became official on January 7.

Agunot is the Hebrew term for so-called “chained women,” wives whose husbands refuse to grant them a religious divorce.

ORA, which pressures husbands who refuse to grant their wives religious divorces, launched a website featuring a video about Porat that was viewed more than 68,000 times. More than 80 demonstrators — primarily from Orthodox communities across Ohio and Michigan — showed up for the November 8 rally near Shur’s home in Kettering, Ohio.

Though ORA has staged rallies and social media campaigns in the past, its executive director, Rabbi Jeremy Stern, said that this was the first time the organization has produced a video as part of its strategy.

“The video that we created went viral on Facebook and YouTube, followed up by the rally, and all the publicity of the rally,” Stern said. “All of that pressure led to the issuance of the get.”

Stern said that as part of the settlement, the group took down the website and the video and promised not to rally against Shur.

“In my life, I’m stuck in a prison,” Adina Porat said in the video. “I can’t move on, I can’t continue. The kids never had a chance to have a stepfather, a new family, and to continue on with their lives.”

According to ORA, Shur and Porat were married in Israel in 1990. He left her and their children in 2007 but refused to provide a get. He left Israel for the United States a year later.

Demonstrators rally at the home of Eli Shur in Kettering, Ohio, near Dayton, on November 8, 2015. (Dayton Jewish Observer)
Demonstrators rally at the home of Eli Shur in Kettering, Ohio, near Dayton, on November 8, 2015. (Dayton Jewish Observer)

In 2009, the Israeli chief rabbinate ruled that Shur was required to give his wife a get. The following year, Shur arrived in Dayton to become the ritual director of Beth Jacob Congregation. He had presented himself as a single man with no children.

Nearly six months into his work at Beth Jacob, ORA volunteers showed up at one of his evening classes there and urged him to sign a get for his wife. He refused. In short order, Shur no longer was employed by the synagogue. He reportedly now works as a life coach in the Dayton area.

After Shur left Beth Jacob, the Chicago Rabbinical Council confirmed the Israeli rabbinate’s ruling that Shur was obligated to provide his wife with a get.

ORA now has 70 active cases, Stern said. The group has held rallies since its founding in 2002, but began using social media a few years ago. Stern said he thinks that ORA will employ the video tactic again.

“We usually resolve about 25 cases every year and take on about 25 new cases every year,” Stern said.

The Porat case, Stern said, is the 253rd the group has resolved since its founding.

“We are elated,” he said. “And we are tremendously grateful to the hundreds, if not thousands, of people who became active in this case — those who came to the rally and all the people who were involved in promoting this case.”

JTA Wire Service/Dayton Jewish Observer

Michelle Tedford and JTA Israel correspondent Marcy Oster contributed to this story.

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