I may be a rabbi who lives and works in the heart of New York City – in fact, I was just voted one of New York’s “hippest” – but believe it or not, I occasionally catch a glimpse of an endangered species.

I’m talking, of course, about young married couples. They seem to hibernate all year, coming to the synagogue only on the High Holy Days. That’s OK. I’m still thrilled to meet them.

This year, I got an interesting reaction after I said something that pretty much guarantees I won’t see these couples again for another year: “So … isn’t it time?”

The wife blushed. The husband cringed. One of them blurted out that well-rehearsed response: “Rabbi, we’d love to have kids. Someday. But right now, we’re not ready.”

This scenario plays itself out all over the world every day. An entire generation of Jewish grandmothers-in-waiting is praying impatiently for little bundles of joy (or two or three) to kvell over. Their daughters and sons aren’t cooperating, however. According to a 2002 study by the Jewish Agency for Israel, “the number of Jews in the world is declining at an average of 50,000 per year.”

And it’s not just a Jewish problem. Throughout the Western world, men and women in their prime reproductive years are doing everything but reproducing.

If you’ve been following the news of late, you may be questioning my wisdom or sanity. It was reported that on Oct. 31, the Philippines welcomed the world’s 7 billionth person, Danica May Camacho (see article on page 16). In fact, despite her being officially awarded the title by the United Nations, other countries also are claiming that they have a newborn who is the 7 billionth person on the planet. Still, the United Nations even had flown in the world’s 6 billionth person, Lorrize Mae Guevarra (now 12 years old) to be there to wish a mazal tov.

As the result of this milestone, we’ve been hearing a lot about the “population boom.” However, if you crunch the numbers, a slightly different picture emerges: that “population boom” is more like a “health boom.” Medical advances are improving longevity, which is what is really driving up the world’s population numbers.

In reality, the problem isn’t overpopulation but sub-replacement fertility and aging populations that ultimately will lead to massive population declines. In places like Japan and Western Europe, low fertility has increased the incidence of voluntary childlessness, which in turn will have a far-reaching impact on economic and social policy. Nations such as Greece already are struggling to support their graying citizens – a message that few in that country seem willing to hear.

China’s extreme sub-replacement fertility rate is creating a hitherto unknown family structure: children with no siblings. That is, family trees with no branches.

The United States is clinging to a healthy replenishment rate just above 2.1 children, but only due to high immigration rates, which are now petering off, given the economic downturn.

As a rabbi, I can’t help but recall that the Bible’s first instruction to humankind, in Genesis 1:28, is “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the land and subdue it.” Note that the emphasis is not just on having a family, but a large one.

Some might ask, why was it necessary to command people to do something that not only guarantees the continued survival of the human race, but that comes so naturally? I’m beginning to think that the long-ago command “to be fruitful and multiply” actually was meant for us modern people thousands of years in the future – a kind of message in a (baby) bottle that would wash ashore in our post-modern, post-parenting era. Whether we will heed that message remains to be seen.

JTA Wire Service